From Phyllis Schlafly, The Positive Woman (1977)
Phyllis Schlafly headed the strongest wing of the anti-feminist and anti-ERA movement. Schlafly had led anti-communist campaigns in the 1950s and 1960s, campaigns that made her a superb organizer, and heo was a significant factor in the defeat of the ERA. She tapped a grassroots movement mainly located in evangelical protestant churches in support of her views about the centrality of traditional family life to the future of the nation. Compare her views to those of Steinem.
It
is self-evident to the Positive Woman that the female body with its
baby-producing organs was not designed by a conspiracy of men but by the Divine
Architect of the human race. Those who think it is unfair that women have
babies, whereas men cannot, will have to take up their complaint with God
because no other power is capable of changing that fundamental fact. On some
college campuses, I have been assured that other methods of reproduction will
be developed. But most of us must deal with the real world rather than with the
imagination of dreamers.
Another
feature of the woman's natural role is the obvious fact that women can
breast-feed babies and men cannot. This functional role was not imposed by
conspiratorial males seeking So burden women with confining chores, but must be
recognized as part of the plan of the Divine Architect for the survival of the
human race through the centuries and in the countries that know no
pasteurization of milk or sterilization of bottles.
The
Positive Woman looks upon her femaleness and her fertility as part of her
purpose, her potential, and her power. She rejoices that she has a capability
for creativity that men can never have.
T'he
third basic dogma of the women's liberation movement is that there is no
difference between male and female except the sex organs, and that all those
physical, cognitive, and emotional differences you think are there, are
merely the result of centuries of restraints imposed by a male-dominated
society and sex-stereotyped schooling. The role imposed on women is, by
definition, inferior, according to the women's liberationists.
The Positive Woman knows that, while there are some
physical competitions in which women are better (and can command more money)
than men, including those that put a premium on grace and beauty, such as
figure skating, the superior physical strength of males over females in
competitions of strength, speed, and short-term endurance is beyond rational
dispute....
The Positive Woman remembers the essential validity
of the old prayer: "Lord, give me the strength to change what I can
change, the serenity to accept what I cannot change, and the wisdom to discern
the difference." The women's liberationists are expending their time and
energies erecting a make- believe world in which they hypothesize that if
schooling were gender-free, and if the same money were spent on male and
female sports programs, and if women were permitted to compete on equal terms, then
they would prove them- selves to be physically equal. Meanwhile, the
Positive Woman has put the in- eradicable physical, differences into her mental
computer, programmed her plan of action, and is already on the way to personal
achievement....
The Positive Woman recognizes the fact that, when it
comes to sex, women are simply not the equal of men. The sexual drive of men is
much stronger than that of women. That is how the human race was designed in
order that it might perpetuate itself The other side of the coin is that it is
easier for women to control their sexual appetites. A Positive Woman cannot
defeat a man in a wrestling or boxing match, but she can motivate him, inspire
him, encourage him, teach him, restrain him, reward him, and have power over
him that he can never achieve over her with all his muscle. How or whether a
Positive Woman uses her power is determined solely by the way she alone defines
her goals and develops her skills.
The
differences between men and women are also emotional and psychological. Without
woman's innate maternal instinct, the human race would have died out centuries
ago. There is nothing so helpless in all earthly life as the newbom infant. It
will die within hours if not cared for. Even in the most primitive, uneducated
societies, women have always cared for their newborn babies. They didn't need
any schooling to teach them how. They didn't need any welfare workers to tell
them it is their social obligation. Even in societies to whom such concepts as
"ought," "social responsibility," and "compassion for
the help- less" were unknown, mothers cared for their new babies.
Why?
Because caring for a baby serves the natural maternal need of a woman. Although
not nearly so total as the baby's need, the woman's need is nonetheless real.
The overriding psychological need of a woman is to love something alive. A baby
fulfills this need in the lives of most women. If a baby is not available to
fill that need, women search for a baby-substitute. This is the reason why
women have traditionally gone into teaching and nursing careers. They are doing
what comes naturally to the female psyche. The schoolchild or the patient of
any age provides an outlet for a woman to express her natural maternal need.
This
maternal need in women is the reason why mothers whose children have grown up
and flown from the nest are sometimes cut loose from their psychological
moorings. The maternal need in women can show itself in love for grandchildren,
nieces, nephews, or even neighbors' children. The maternal need in some women
has even manifested itself in an extraordinary affection lavished on a dog, a
cat, or a parakeet.
This
is not to say that every woman must have a baby in order to be fulfilled. But
it is to say that fulfillment for most women involves expressing their natural
maternal urge by loving and caring for someone.
The
women's liberation movement complains that traditional stereotyped roles assume
that women are "passive" and that men are "aggressive." The
anomaly is that a woman's most fundamental emotional need is not passive at
all, but active. A woman naturally seeks to love affirmatively and to show that
love in an active way by caring for the object of her affections.
he
Positive Woman finds somebody on whom she can lavish her maternal love so that
it doesn't well up inside her and cause psychological frustrations. Surely no
woman is so isolated by geography or insulated by spirit that she cannot find
someone worthy of her maternal love. All persons, men and women, gain by
sharing something of themselves with their fellow humans, but women profit most
of all because it is part of their very nature....
Here is a starting checklist of goals that can be
restored to America if Positive Women will apply their dedicated efforts:
(1) The
right of a woman to be a full-time wife and mother and to have this right
recognized by laws that obligate her husband to provide the primary financial
support and a home for her and their children.
(2) The
responsibility of parents (not the government) for the care of preschool
children.
(3) The right of parents to insist that the
schools: a. permit voluntary prayer,
b. teach the "fourth R," right and wrong,
according to the precepts of Holy Scriptures,
c. use textbooks that do not offend the religious
and moral values of the parents,
d. use textbooks that honor the family, monogamous
marriage, woman's role as wife and mother, and man's role as provider and
protector,
e.
teach such basic
educational skills as reading and arithmetic before time and money are spent on
frills,
permit
children to attend school in their own neighborhood, and
g.
separate
the sexes for gym classes, athletic practice and competition, and academic and
vocational classes, if so desired.
(4) The right of employers to give job
preference (where qualifications are equal) to a wage earner supporting
dependents.
(5) The
right of a woman engaged in physical-labor employment to be protected by laws
and regulations that respect the physical differences and different family
obligations of men and women.
(6) The
right to equal opportunity in employment and education for all per- sons
regardless of race, creed, sex, or national origin.
(7) The
right to have local governments prevent the display of printed or pictorial
materials that degrade women in a pornographic, perverted, or sadistic manner.
(8) The right to defend the institution of the
family by according certain rights to husbands and wives that are not given to
those choosing immoral lifestyles.
(9)
The
right to life of all innocent persons from conception to natural death.
(10)
The right of citizens to live in a
community where state and local government and judges maintain law and order by
a system of justice under due process and punishment that is swift and certain.
(I 1) The
right of society to protect itself by designating different roles for men and
women in the armed forces, and police and fire departments where necessary.
(12) The right of citizens to have the federal
government adequately provide for the common defense against aggression by any
other nation.